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Building Up To Your Blow Job – Teasing & Tantalizing Your Man

Some men are ready and eager for sex or a blow job 24/7. But this isn’t true for all of them. In fact, some guys take a lot of coaxing just to turn them on and get them in the mood, and as your man ages, this becomes more and more of an issue [1].

Here are a few different ideas you should use to get him worked up before you even get physical with him:

Sexy Selfies – Sending your man a sexy selfie while he is at work or is in the gym is the perfect way to turn him on and get him ready for fun times ahead. Using an app like Snapchat is best if you don’t want to worry about the photos being stored on your phone. Check out this guide to taking sexy selfies for more tips.

Dirty Texts & Sexting – While your man is at work or is just out of the house, try sending him some dirty texts, letting him know about what’s on your mind and what you are planning for later. It can be something filthy like, “I can wait to feel you explode in my mouth tonight.” Or it can be something a little more reserved like, “Can’t wait to see you later…and my lips can’t wait either ;)” Or you can describe in detail the blow job idea you’ve just learned and are going to perform on him.

You’ll get more great tips on sending your man sexy texts in this chapter of the Dirty Talking Guide.

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Out & About – If you are both out in public together or at a dinner party where you can’t possibly be intimate, then it’s the perfect time to lean across and whisper something in his ear to get him thinking about what you’ve got planned for later. The Dirty Talking Guide will give you step-by-step advice, examples, and tips on what to say to tease, tantalize, and amp up the sexual tension with your man.

A General Guideline For Tantalizing Him – Often, guys get turned on by a lot of things that many women don’t find arousing [2], so keep this in mind when you are coming up with your own ideas and tactics to tease him and build up to a blow job.

This explains why your guy may love seeing a picture of you naked, even though seeing a snap of him naked doesn’t do much for you. It also explains why you might get crazy horny when reading erotica, while it might put your man to sleep. In other words, just because something turns you on, it doesn’t mean it will turn him on, and vice-versa.

His Turn Ons – Your man may have certain turn-ons and triggers specific to him that massively ramp up the sexual tension and his anticipation. They could be literally anything from:

  • Reminding him of some very hot sex you’ve had together.
  • Whispering some “trigger” word or phrase in his ear.
  • Sensually touching specific parts of his body.
  • Looking at him in a certain way.

The key is knowing and understanding these specific turn-ons of his and then using them to get his mind thinking, longing for what you have planned later.

A Long Build Up – You can spend an hour teasing, tantalizing, and slowly building up to your blow job or… You can spend days doing it.

If you aren’t going to see your man for a while, you can start sending him dirty texts, sexy pics, and stories detailing what you plan on doing to him a number of days before seeing him.

The entire time, he’ll be thinking of you, desperate for what awaits.